Dan and Hannah Explore the Carolina Foothills, The Biltmore, and UNC-Asheville

Wedding steve and amelia

Amelia and Steve

Hannah and I have come to the American South for the wedding of the son of my Arizona State University roommate, Big Steve, and his wife Amelia.  We see this trip as a golden opportunity to hike and pickle away down south in the land of cotton (and by that I mean Dixie).

 

 

 

UNCA map from tryon to biltmore

From Tryon to Asheville in a littel

Before we head north to Asheville for the wedding weekend, Becky takes us to the Foothills Equestrian Nature Center in her new hometown of Tryon.  Not fifteen minutes from their small village downtown, we have trails that are over the river and through the woods; I believe I did see grandmother’s house.

Fence 1A start of trail B H Da

Becky, Hannah, and Dan

Fence 1B D H pond

Leaving our Tar Heel family, we drive an hour north to Asheville to meet up another Sun Devil roommate of mine, Rich and his wife Mary.  Given access to the grounds at the Biltmore Estate as wedding photographers, they drive us around the fields and venues on the palatial estate.

Biltmore 1 D and H in front of

Dan and Hannah in front of their dream VRBO.  You’re invited!

With the wedding party and family rehearsing the evening before, Hannah and I explore the campus of the University of North Carolina – Asheville.  On a showery Friday afternoon in late October, the campus is quiet except for engineering students in a 5P class!  What grad teaching assistant drew that short straw?!

Fence UNCA map

UNCA 1 D at clock

 

UNCA 1A H with umbella

Walking on campus, I am taken back to my first three years as an undergrad at the College of Wooster (1966-1969).  I just couldn’t make all their rules and my self-imposed pressure work for me.  Daring more than I ever had in my first twenty-one years of life, I escaped (i.e. transferred) to the Wild, Wild West and the freedom of Arizona State University.  Though I am forever grateful for meeting Hannah Kraai at Wooster, enrolling at ASU for my senior year set in motion the belief that my life could be the adventure I saw others having.

UNCA map from woo to asu

Without family or friends in Arizona, I took my first baby steps into the unknown and its possibilities.  Then it was teaching Latino, Afro-American, and Anglo fifth and sixth graders in Anaheim, California; living in to Arizona, far from family, with Hannah for the first ten years of our marriage; then moving to New England with no job and two daughters under the age of three; later quitting a public school teaching career after twenty plus years to go to the University of New Hampshire to seek my dream job (i.e. teaching at the college level), I became a more courageous soul than I ever imagined I would be.

I now appreciate Wooster for the dissonance that propelled me to find my dharma (i.e. my journey and my path).

7 thoughts on “Dan and Hannah Explore the Carolina Foothills, The Biltmore, and UNC-Asheville

  1. We love Asheville…family trip and that is where Anna hosted Tara’s gathering with friends before Tara ‘s wedding. The builtmore….hiking…..river rafting. It is a beautiful spot….Becky looks so good. NC agrees with her.

    Will we see wedding photos? Oh….you usually don’t include wedding photos i recall…. no pressure !!!! But at least tell me: was the wedding at the Biltmore?

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    • We found hiking intown Asheville at Richmond Hill Park the morning of the wedding – next week’s blog. The blog for Dec 28 is the wedding blog, which was at the Biltmore. The forecasted rain held off.

  2. Asheville has a special place in my heart. Big Steve and I drove from Front Royal, VA on Skyland Drive/Blue Ridge Parkway to the Smokey Mountains. We camped along the way and stopped in Asheville to tour the Biltmore. Who knew that one day something very special would take place at that spectacular place! 😉
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  3. This journey seems very special! Glad it brought back memories of your undergrad years and how your brave (and often scary) choices brought you to where you are now. Certainly puts things in perspective.

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